“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” – C.G. Jung
Have you ever felt that you are not truly you that make you don't have the feeling the authentic confidence? Have you ever felt that you have to change you in each context to satisfy others? You don't feel the alignment between the person you want to become or what you do. You don't feel you have the congruence!
- Why it is hard to be congruent
Different parts of us are engaged at different times. Depending on different contexts, we may change our identity, personalty, states and behaviors. We might be a great team player at work but a bad partner at home. We may be really talkative when being with others but silent when being with ourselves. It is natural for us to be different in different contexts.
However, to feel more congruent, we need to be more conscious about who we are, who we want to be and what we want to do. We have to intentionally create the identity we want.
- There are some practices to be more congruence:
Be honest and vulnerable to share our dreams/weaknesses/difficulties
Let your emotions out: If you feel something, just express them but not let them make you behave in not a good way
Share your dreams with your mentors or the people you believe and have succeed
Be responsible and live fully
Celebrate you: celebrate even small wins, give yourself credits when you complete something and then continue trying more!
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