DIFFICULT CONVERSATION ❤ DEEP DEVELOPMENT
jen touched on this concept more than 10 years ago, at the time after a 'non-stop' journey of action and creating 'good and derivative products'. 'Derivative products' are often products that make the energy not in a purified state.
At that time, this concept was like a tool for jen to do a 'pit-stop' - to touch and look deeply and truly:
* Which conversation have I avoided because I was afraid of hurting others/myself
* Which conversation have I had at a shallow level to avoid hurting others/myself
* When having that conversation, we are in a position of empathy, helping each other to improve, clarifying the 'hesitations', doubts or assumptions in our heads; empathize with other perspectives of yourself/others
* The number of difficult conversations may be related to the journey of practicing 'courage' and 'compassion' with yourself and others
2 lessons jen contemplated in the journey of having difficult conversations:
+ There is a 'subtle' state that we borrow this concept, use it excessively and have not acted to optimize its effect. For example, we borrow difficult conversations to better understand a certain pattern of someone, we stop there, without specific action - for example changing from our own pattern (which activates that person's pattern) - will not last.
+ If we are accompanying to help someone develop and they do not have a foundation of thinking/skills, we need to combine training, coaching, sharing... in addition to just listening to understand; and especially need to give feedback, although it is difficult because it can be difficult to listen at first.
+ Sincere core to understanding, and wish good for both sides❤
What is your experience with difficult 'conversations'?
