A CONVERSATION

FOR ANYONE WHO THINKS YOU ARE IN YOUR COMFORT ZONE

H: I felt I had been in a comfort zone for so long. Today it is raining, I was despairing about when the Covid would end, when I could live up to my dreams and desires.

J: How long have you felt like that?

H: 3 years ago, when I had just got married, when I got into being busy with my children and family, I felt I was living in my comfort zone, leaving my ambitions behind.

J: How do you know you are in a comfort zone? If you are not in there…where would you be?

H: I observe that I have a stable job, I have the same routines, I don’t develop my skills or maybe try something new…

J: What would be the skills or the “something”…?

H: It would be like speaking, connecting, doing business… but when I thought about that, I was afraid it would have an influence on my family…

J: Have you ever done it and how did you know it would affect your family?

H: I did it - for example, going to learn skills and I found I couldn’t spend time with my children in the evening as I had previously …

(“We”…. Is the royal “we”? – But I think you mean “I” ?)

J: I have one “mother”, this one is pursuing her dreams and she still spends time with her children maybe not so many hours – but with quality and great energy.

And the other “mother” – who is always struggling, thinking that I am not yet working on my dreams, thinking that she is stuck with her family.

What do you think your children want to be in order to improve their lives?

H: For sure, the first one.

J: What would be the time of day when you could protect to work on your skills and share with your children about it? You all pursue your dreams, you pursue your dreams, your children do too…

H: Morning time…