CHEER UP: a habit to build confidence
HOW CHEER UP CAN INCREASE OUR CONFIDENCE?
When we are in a down moment or lack of confidence, if we are cheered up (either by ourselves or by others), we will believe in ourselves more to take action, action creates an experience, the experience can lead to competence then confidence.
For example, I thought I could not speak well, my mentors cheer me up "You have the potential to speak well. Your current performance does not reflect your future performance. Just keep sharing and you will improve. I believe in you". I continued trying to speak then I improved then I became more confident.
We can be our own mentor or have a real mentor or a supportive community to be cheered up and keep improving.
Not even in a down moment, when we knock down a goal, we deserve to be CHEERed up either by ourselves or others. When we celebrate our achievement, our brain knows what is good to reinforce
HOW CHEER UP DEVELOPS COMPASSION?
When we encourage ourselves or others to overcome difficulties or down moments, we express our care and love toward ourselves and others.
7 WAYS TO CHEER UP OTHERS?
When they feel down?
- Acknowledge their feelings
- Say how much you love them or care about them and
- Ask questions to let them speak
- Listen
- Say "thanks for sharing"
- Ask them to do one thing to change their state of mind
- Make a joke
When they are not confident about themselves?
- Send an inspiring image/video
- Share one image of one achievement they did in the past
- Share one image of one thing you learn from them
- Ask them to share why do they feel that
- Listen
- Say "thanks for sharing"
- Learn one new thing with them
THE MOST 7 CHEERING UP SENTENCES I HEARD LAST WEEK WERE:
- I am happy
- I am very happy
- I am truly happy
- I am happy to know you
- I am happy to learn from you
- I am happy to learn to how to improve
- I am happy when you are all happy
What are your favourite cheer up sentences?
