#howfarwevecome #wherewearenow #howfarwecango

Coachee: I often feel like as though I’m lacking, even when I achieve some of the goals I've set myself.
Jen: How often does that feeling happen?
Coachee: Yes, when I set a goal, I thought that when I achieved it, I would feel more confident because I have done it, but every time I reach the goal, I feel small, and I find myself moving on. I need to brace myself for another goal.
Jen: You feel small compared to what?
Coachee: I feel small compared to the new goal, because the new goal is bigger than the previous one, I feel smaller.
Jen: I set a goal – it's called goal B, and I'm at point A right now, and when I take X steps, I see goal B grow to B + X?
Coachee: That's right.
Jen: And you, have you grown up? because you took 'X' steps?
Coachee: Hix…I don't usually look at it that way, wow.
Jen: You have a goal B, I'm at point A now, you have gone X steps, you see the new goal is B + X, and you are still at A? does not move from the starting point…
Coachee: Yes, I did teleport, I was actually at A + X, but I don't usually let myself think like that...
Jen: If your current way of thinking not helping you, …is there a new way of thinking that will help you to continue to reach your bigger goals, with a greater sense of confidence?
Coachee: I think, I will see myself at A + X, and see this as a journey, rather than only a destination, every step – I am walking on my mission…

Do you take the time to reflect on the steps you've taken? Let it seep into your heart, your being – so that there is a foundation for the next step?